Gardening with Children

GS Children's Garden 2I held my first garden party 55 years ago when I was 12. We were celebrating the start of a new school year. Nine of my girlfriends and a cousin my mother made me include were invited. We felt very grown up. My grandfather and parents were an integral part of the event. Earlier in the spring, months before thoughts of a garden party, my grandfather and I scattered flower seeds that I helped him harvest in the fall. I don’t recall what kind, but I suspect zinnias. I had my own special area of the garden that was my responsibility, and on party day I proudly showed off the flowers. I’m sure I exaggerated how hard I worked all summer tending plants, but I remember being happy and, I’m sure, boastful.

For the party, my father built a long table on the lawn, and my mother planned a magical afternoon. We each picked flowers, and my grandfather kept repeating, “Altenzione i fiori preziosi. Non passo su di loro.” (Be careful of the precious flowers. Do not step on them.) My mother showed us how to arrange flowers for table decorations, and we made flower crowns to wear. My grandfather took us to the vegetable garden to harvest tomatoes, basil and oregano. Each of us made our own pizza, and the adults supervised as we cooked on the grill.

I often wonder if that afternoon cemented my love of gardening and entertaining. The cousin I didn’t want included is now one of my dearest friends. She is an extraordinary gardener and, like me, she credits my mother and our grandfather for instilling her passion for gardening. I’ve become a Green Spring Master Gardener, and my cousin is probing the North Carolina Extension Service for a Master Gardener program near her.

1 Fort CarsonIt’s never too early to garden with children. Know what your children like, work in your garden, and engage the children in activities. Do they like to get muddy? Can they tolerate dirty hands? Teach them the science of good soil and why plants need sun and water. Don’t fear teaching terms like photosynthesis, even to your preschooler. Exposure, exposure, exposure. I won a schoolwide science fair in fourth grade on the topic photosynthesis. The judges were wowed!

2 Woodley WonderworksHelp young gardeners experience success by selecting easy-to-grow plants like zucchini, radishes, and sunflowers. Growing their own veggies will encourage them to eat healthy. A child’s self-esteem will grow when he harvests a cucumber from his own garden. You don’t need a lot of space. Lean a dollar store trellis against an outside wall and grow beans or other edible vines. Grow sweet, cherry tomatoes or herbs in a container.

Supplement the hands-on experience of gardening with books and field trips. Green Spring Gardens has a library of gardening books for children to read and explore on site. It also has a fabulous children’s garden with activity sheets. Whitney Cohen and John Fisher wrote “The Book of Gardening Projects for Kids.” It’s filled with great advice and activities, even if the parent is not an enthusiastic gardener. It has suggestions on how to enhance the gardening experience.

Gardening with your children will give them a lifetime of love and respect for nature. So get your hands dirty. Experience, and make memories with your kids.

Author Gioia Caiola Forman is a Green Spring Gardens Master Gardener.


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About Fairfax County Park Authority HISTORY: On December 6, 1950, the Fairfax County Board of Supervisors created the Fairfax County Park Authority. The Park Authority was authorized to make decisions concerning land acquisition, park development and operations in Fairfax County, Virginia. To date, 13 park bond referenda have been approved between 1959 and 2016. Today, the Park Authority has 427 parks on more than 23,000 acres of land. We offer 325 miles of trails, our most popular amenity. FACILITIES: The Park system is the primary public mechanism in Fairfax County for the preservation of environmentally sensitive land and resources, areas of historic significance and the provision of recreational facilities and services including: • Nine indoor RECenters with swimming pools, fitness rooms, gyms and class spaces. Cub Run features an indoor water park and on-site naturalist • Eight golf courses from par-3 to championship level, four driving ranges including the new state-of-the-art heated, covered range at Burke Lake Golf Center • Five nature and visitor centers. Also nine Off-Leash Dog Activity areas • Three lakefront parks including Lake Fairfax, Lake Accotink and Burke Lake, with campgrounds at Burke Lake and Lake Fairfax. The Water Mine Family Swimmin’ Hole at Lake Fairfax, Our Special Harbor Sprayground at Lee as well as an indoor water park at Cub Run RECenter • Clemyjontri Park, a fully accessible playground in Great Falls featuring two acres of family friendly fun and a carousel, as well as Chessie’s Big Backyard and a carousel at the Family Recreation Area at Lee District Park • An ice skating rink at Mount Vernon RECenter and the Skate Park in Wakefield Park adjacent to Audrey Moore RECenter • Kidwell Farm, a working farm of the 1930s-era at Frying Pan Farm Park in Herndon, now with historic carousel • Eight distinctive historic properties available for rent • A working grist mill at Colvin Run in Great Falls and a restored 18th century home at Sully Historic Site in Chantilly • A horticulture center at Green Spring Gardens in Annandale • Natural and cultural resources protected by the Natural Resource Management Plan and Cultural Resource Plans, plus an Invasive Management Area program that targets alien plants and utilizes volunteers in restoring native vegetation throughout our community • Picnic shelters, tennis courts, miniature golf courses, disc golf courses, off-leash dog parks, amphitheaters, a marina, kayaking/canoeing center • Provides 263 athletic fields, including 39 synthetic turf fields, and manages athletic field maintenance services at 417 school athletic fields. PARK AUTHORITY BOARD: A 12-member citizen board, appointed by the Fairfax County Board of Supervisors, sets policies and priorities for the Fairfax County Park Authority. Visit for Fairfax County Government's Comment Policy.

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